爱心妈妈.......的姐姐
2 个小傻瓜～
一个小妹妹穿baby头饰～
当场的斟茶仪式
抢气球比赛
谁赢呢？
抢气球真的要有技术！
下图看清楚哦～
合照
最佳妈妈奖
战利品
have a nice day!
:)
JCG
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Living in denial
Well, since the weeks has gone and the school work has pilled up, it should be the time to work on my task. But... This is the time when my mind & body choose to take a rest. Go figure. I'd say why must everything be on almost the same due dates? That can literally kill. But yea, life is nice, at least I met lots of friends, some little dramas, twists & turns here & there. Kah-boom~ There you go. A uni student's life in summary. Bittersweet. Good luck to all my friends & friends of friends & basically, everyone coping with their life. Look at challenges of life & give them the finger, someday you can own this. Beat it!
love
JCG
love
JCG
Saturday, October 13, 2012
Sorted out!
Yes, after a few attempts, I've finally sorted out........the points for my topic of oral presentation.
You might be surprised at the time I spent to make sure everything goes just right.
I would like to say it's easy for an English student to come out with a persuasive topic to talk about, but it's not.
I drained my brain & searched through countless websites, but it's done, and I'm happy! Heeeee
Anyways, I have 2 quizzes, 2 presentations & a report coming up next week. Yey me!
Have a nice day yall.
You might be surprised at the time I spent to make sure everything goes just right.
I would like to say it's easy for an English student to come out with a persuasive topic to talk about, but it's not.
I drained my brain & searched through countless websites, but it's done, and I'm happy! Heeeee
Anyways, I have 2 quizzes, 2 presentations & a report coming up next week. Yey me!
Have a nice day yall.
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Wei Zheng 哥哥 Wedding Day gif
斟茶仪式
红包祝福
幸福美满
May happy endings befall on the lovely couple.
Signing off,
JCG
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
The Roach Poem
Was about to sleep when a small creature crawled,
I caught it with the corner of my eyes as it walked.
Calm and steady I took the Risect and the broom,
swish and splash but it was not sent to it's doom.
Out it flies into my rummie's wardrobe,
what to do but to give it a little shove.
Fortunately we trapped it as we poach,
here ends the story of the nasty cockroach.
I caught it with the corner of my eyes as it walked.
Calm and steady I took the Risect and the broom,
swish and splash but it was not sent to it's doom.
Out it flies into my rummie's wardrobe,
what to do but to give it a little shove.
Fortunately we trapped it as we poach,
here ends the story of the nasty cockroach.
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Monday, September 17, 2012
I notice a little something new about myself.
After a few incident, I notice I am someone who would like to be appreciated
Maybe, most people are like that too.
I think there are goods and bads of having this quality.
The Good
When one gives you a good recognition when you accomplish a task - giving a pat on the back, giving great smiles or handshake or returning the favor - you would feel on top of the world, feeling great that you have done something important. It is of the nicest feeling, making one know that they are useful/important in something. It doesn't have to be something massive, just those small everyday things that can turn your frown into a smile, that alone can fuel you through the day. However...
The Bad
When one does not give you the recognition you deserved/wanted (noted that I put wanted there?), you'll get over sensitive and pissed off easily. It's true how saying or not saying or not-saying-with-smile or saying-without-sincerity a normal 'thank you' would give different response from others. (P/S: for you guys out there, insincerity is easy to detect, you don't have to be an expert to know it.) But when situations put you in as the bearer, you would get over sensitive and you lock yourself into a never-ending portal of self-pity, where people mistreat you all the time and your prejudice get ahead of you.
It is sad to know the consequences of possessing a quality. But I think it is how you manage yourself that makes the difference.
Let's put ourselves outside of the 1st person or 2nd person's POV. Put yourself in a 3rd person's POV instead.
Would you agree to someone beginning to hate another just because they forget to say a sincere thank you?
Is it okay for one to make a judgement before knowing that there are several angles to take into consideration?
Yes, it might not seem appropriate sometimes to allow unfairness. I know cause I am one who values fairness, or as the Chinese call it, 公正.
But, remembering the recognition we seek for, is it a must or is it a desire?
At times it seems that not all hard-work or efforts made are given the hero's welcoming.
Those who give incognito are actually the true heros because they are in the level where it doesn't matter whether or not you get the recognition - this is where you have fun giving.
Relating it to teachings such as the Chinese Buddhism and some celebrations such as Christmas, the spirit of giving is somewhat, the next level to be achieved by men.
This is where some hearts come at peace.
As for me, I would still continue to enjoy my new found quality, but in a conserved way, because I believe in one who may give good recognition to others, for the good of both parties.
Appreciation, is to be given, and to be taken (Wendy, 2012)
Signing off,
JCG
I think there are goods and bads of having this quality.
The Good
When one gives you a good recognition when you accomplish a task - giving a pat on the back, giving great smiles or handshake or returning the favor - you would feel on top of the world, feeling great that you have done something important. It is of the nicest feeling, making one know that they are useful/important in something. It doesn't have to be something massive, just those small everyday things that can turn your frown into a smile, that alone can fuel you through the day. However...
The Bad
When one does not give you the recognition you deserved/wanted (noted that I put wanted there?), you'll get over sensitive and pissed off easily. It's true how saying or not saying or not-saying-with-smile or saying-without-sincerity a normal 'thank you' would give different response from others. (P/S: for you guys out there, insincerity is easy to detect, you don't have to be an expert to know it.) But when situations put you in as the bearer, you would get over sensitive and you lock yourself into a never-ending portal of self-pity, where people mistreat you all the time and your prejudice get ahead of you.
It is sad to know the consequences of possessing a quality. But I think it is how you manage yourself that makes the difference.
Let's put ourselves outside of the 1st person or 2nd person's POV. Put yourself in a 3rd person's POV instead.
Would you agree to someone beginning to hate another just because they forget to say a sincere thank you?
Is it okay for one to make a judgement before knowing that there are several angles to take into consideration?
Yes, it might not seem appropriate sometimes to allow unfairness. I know cause I am one who values fairness, or as the Chinese call it, 公正.
But, remembering the recognition we seek for, is it a must or is it a desire?
At times it seems that not all hard-work or efforts made are given the hero's welcoming.
Those who give incognito are actually the true heros because they are in the level where it doesn't matter whether or not you get the recognition - this is where you have fun giving.
Relating it to teachings such as the Chinese Buddhism and some celebrations such as Christmas, the spirit of giving is somewhat, the next level to be achieved by men.
This is where some hearts come at peace.
As for me, I would still continue to enjoy my new found quality, but in a conserved way, because I believe in one who may give good recognition to others, for the good of both parties.
Appreciation, is to be given, and to be taken (Wendy, 2012)
Signing off,
JCG
Thursday, September 13, 2012
讲多错多
这既可怜又无可否认的事实
当我最近面对人多时
不知怎，嘴巴讲的比头脑想的还来得快
不对场合说出不对的话，
不懂有没有得罪他人。。。
祸还是从口出来的
人只能时时警惕
照顾自己并顾及他人的滋味
才算沟通/处事成功
无论你是处身在哪里的你
要是我曾经说过一些难下耳的话
我在这诚恳的道歉
本人不是故意的，
希望大人有大量
peace out
JCG
当我最近面对人多时
不知怎，嘴巴讲的比头脑想的还来得快
不对场合说出不对的话，
不懂有没有得罪他人。。。
祸还是从口出来的
人只能时时警惕
照顾自己并顾及他人的滋味
才算沟通/处事成功
无论你是处身在哪里的你
要是我曾经说过一些难下耳的话
我在这诚恳的道歉
本人不是故意的，
希望大人有大量
peace out
JCG
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Life lessons: Communication
It takes 2 to tango.
We don't have to be taught to understand the importance of communication.
But sometimes somehow, we don't do it.
Why?
Because it's what we Chinese refer to as 麻烦, or troublesome.
We are stuck in an era where minds are set to be: if you don't say it out, then others won't know; if others don't know, nobody's gonna bother you and your own sweet world.
Right?
Wrong.
Reality is always harsh, in this case, if you don't communicate (well) with others, then in the end, things will not turn out the way you planned it.
Let me share this with you.
I was not one who was trilled with the idea of communication.
Specifically with my parents.
They somehow got to find fault in everything you say and every discussion would turn out to be a lecture. (Boring stuff I know, I still love my parents though.)
But recently, I've found out that it is actually not that hard to talk to them.
Yes sure, everything they say must be out of a handbook or something (Universal Handbook for Asian Parents: Guides and Examples available!)
But as much as you don't like to hear out their lessons or lectures, most of them actually make good advice.
Their messages are as though encrypted by several layers of codes, if you manage to crack them, it'll be raining "golden experiences".
I started to like talking to them as I grow, and I realize the many boring/useful stuff they say to you, most of it is out of care and love.
Awww guys, thanks for making me feel like a star.
No pun intended :)
Anyway, grab a close member of your heart, your parents, your partners, your friends, and communicate. Talk and sort things out, sometimes, the results might even surprise you.
Have a nice day.
We don't have to be taught to understand the importance of communication.
But sometimes somehow, we don't do it.
Why?
Because it's what we Chinese refer to as 麻烦, or troublesome.
We are stuck in an era where minds are set to be: if you don't say it out, then others won't know; if others don't know, nobody's gonna bother you and your own sweet world.
Right?
Wrong.
Reality is always harsh, in this case, if you don't communicate (well) with others, then in the end, things will not turn out the way you planned it.
Let me share this with you.
I was not one who was trilled with the idea of communication.
Specifically with my parents.
They somehow got to find fault in everything you say and every discussion would turn out to be a lecture. (Boring stuff I know, I still love my parents though.)
But recently, I've found out that it is actually not that hard to talk to them.
Yes sure, everything they say must be out of a handbook or something (Universal Handbook for Asian Parents: Guides and Examples available!)
But as much as you don't like to hear out their lessons or lectures, most of them actually make good advice.
Their messages are as though encrypted by several layers of codes, if you manage to crack them, it'll be raining "golden experiences".
I started to like talking to them as I grow, and I realize the many boring/useful stuff they say to you, most of it is out of care and love.
Awww guys, thanks for making me feel like a star.
No pun intended :)
Anyway, grab a close member of your heart, your parents, your partners, your friends, and communicate. Talk and sort things out, sometimes, the results might even surprise you.
Have a nice day.
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Update
Why is updates like these so important you asked?
No one would be interested anyways...
The point of having an update is just to tell everyone
1, I'm still alive and breathing
2, I'm kindda busy with my all too awesome social life
3, I'm too lazy to blog/write stuff
4, My brain capacity is at max
5, I'm just plain lazy...
Point taken?
So Suit Up!
Cause today is gonna be legend-wait for it-dary! LEGENDARY!
JCG
No one would be interested anyways...
The point of having an update is just to tell everyone
1, I'm still alive and breathing
2, I'm kindda busy with my all too awesome social life
3, I'm too lazy to blog/write stuff
4, My brain capacity is at max
5, I'm just plain lazy...
Point taken?
So Suit Up!
Cause today is gonna be legend-wait for it-dary! LEGENDARY!
JCG
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